A Life Reimagined

Valentyna Drobyazko (74), a former chemical plant worker, and Oleksandr Ilmendeyev (67), an electrician, had built a life in Avdiivka that they never expected to leave. They had carefully prepared their home for their golden years, investing time and love into every detail of their apartment.

War shattered their carefully constructed world. Hiding in basements, witnessing the horror of unimaginable destruction, they experienced the brutal reality of conflict. A particularly devastating moment came when a shell hit the local stadium, setting the asphalt ablaze—a sight that brought Valentyna to tears.

On April 6, they were evacuated, first to Pokrovsk and then to Dnipro. Their subsequent journey was marked by uncertainty and struggle. In Kyiv, they faced the harsh realities of displacement—living in cramped conditions, with Valentyna working as a cleaner just to afford rent.

On December 21, 2024, they found sanctuary in Senior Chudo Village’s apartment 5.1. With Oleksandr battling diabetes and facing amputation, their new home represented more than just shelter—it was a lifeline of hope.

Their wisdom for younger generations is profound: “Be honest and kind. In a world often ruled by indifference, sincerity and kindness will always be your best qualities.”

To Dell Loy Hansen, they offer heartfelt gratitude: “Thanks to you, we feel we’re not alone with our problems. An American caring so deeply for Ukrainians—it’s truly amazing.”

Their greatest goal now is simple—to continue living, to find peace, and to contribute to their new community.