The Shchehlova–Butko Family

Olena Pylypivna Shchehlova (68)
Mykola Dmytrovych Butko (82)
Moved in: April 14, 2024 | Apartment: 21 3B
From: Mariupol

Before the war, Olena worked at the Azovstal steel plant. Mykola — a brigade leader at heating facilities, reserve officer, and paratrooper. They lived in their own apartment, raised sons, and enjoyed their grandchildren. Everything they had was built with their own hands.

War shattered that life. One of Mykola’s sons was killed in action; the other was taken captive. Mykola himself was arrested, tortured, and deported to Abkhazia. His car was taken, and his home raided. Olena remained in Mariupol and witnessed brutal street violence. Eventually, they had to leave — their safety and freedom were at risk.

Before coming to Senior Chudo Village, they were barely surviving — without heat, electricity, or access to help. Mykola returned from captivity in poor health. They had nowhere to go and no official support.

“The call from the foundation felt like a second chance. For the first time in years, we felt safe.”

They describe the village as a place of peace and healing — warm, respectful, and human.

Olena has hypertension; Mykola suffered a heart attack and stroke, with lasting complications from captivity. They don’t require a psychologist but would welcome emotional support.

Their goal: to reunite with their children.

Life advice for young people: “Value your parents and grandparents while they’re with you. Don’t wait to say kind words. No one else will protect your land and your people but you.”

About Dell Loy Hansen: “This is the mission of a great heart. Though we haven’t met him, we feel his care through every detail here. After everything we’ve endured — he gave us back dignity and freedom.”

What elderly displaced people need: First and foremost — a roof over their heads.

How they’d like to help the village: supporting new residents, planting flowers, and joining community events and conversations.